Friday, August 22, 2014

Friday Favorites #60: Pack it up!

My Friday Favorites post is a little bit different this week!  Since I'm currently in NYC for a long weekend, I thought it might be fun to do a little post about my travel must-haves.  I always think it's interesting to see a different take on a "what's in my bag?" post, so here are my necessities for my metropolitan getaway!
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First of all, I'm totally obsessed with Lulu Guinness purses, and the Lulu by Lulu Guinness line at JC Penney is absolutely wonderful.  Her regular bags cost a fortune, but the JCP line is incredibly reasonable and unbelievably adorable.  I ended up getting a few different purses (including the one above) from the store.  Not only were they on sale, but I can be very picky about neutral bags, and they happened to have three different ones (a white one, one in a taupe color and a black one) that will be great staple purses for me.  I tend to use one purse until it wears out, and though I have a huge collection of novelty bags, I actually have very few practical purses.  The Lulu purses are the perfect size, too -- the ones I got aren't bulky at all, but all three are big enough to fit my DSLR, which is definitely mandatory for this trip!

Secondly, I needed a new carry-on bag, and I just happened to find this one on Amazon.  It comes in a bunch of different colors (as well as other styles), and it's cutesy without being distracting.  It was really inexpensive, and while it might not be the most durable travel bag in the world, it's a great option for a weekender bag or some light schlepping.  The bows are removable, too (though they're really much of the reason I bought it in the first place!), and it's definitely bigger than it looks!

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Headphones are an absolute must for virtually any type of travel, and though I'm sure they're not as good for your hearing as other types of headphones, these earbuds sure are cute!  I love the hedgehogs and cats, and the Happy Plugs come in tons of other colors!

My flight was too short to really watch anything on DVD, but I've done a lot of traveling on trains and buses, and entertainment is vital on long trips!  I usually opt to bring a DVD set of a beloved TV series for a train ride, but sometimes I'll also bring nostalgic movies.  It's also nice to have something to watch if you don't have internet access!
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If I get bored on the plane or in the airport, I'll definitely be reading more of this book.  If you suspect you're an HSP, you need to pick this one up.  I'm only about a third of the way through, but it's cemented the fact that I am, without a doubt, a Highly Sensitive Person, and it's really nice to know that I'm not alone in that!
If you're a blogger who isn't lucky enough to have someone willing to take your outfit photos for you, you might need to invest in a tripod at some point.  I have a couple of tripods that I use, but I really love this one, and it's excellent for traveling!  It can be packed away easily and conveniently in a suitcase (and even comes with a little bag), but expands to full size.  It's also surprisingly durable, and I use it way more than my other tripod, even when I'm at home.  In addition, it's well worth the money, especially when you consider how reasonable the price is!

Because I don't have the newest iPhone (mine's an iPhone 4S), it's really hard to find backup batteries that fit my model of phone and that are aesthetically-pleasing (and not a total piece of junk).  I'd seen these types of plug-in batteries before and had been looking for this same kind for my phone.  After a lot of searching, I finally found this one.  It wasn't very expensive, so I decided to give it a try.  The design isn't *quite* my style, but it's still pretty cute, and since I know I'll be using my phone a lot when I'm on the go, I think it'll be a good investment.
I don't know about you, but when I'm on vacation in a place with lots of people around (like here in New York or in Disney World), I make an effort to pack dresses that sport a longer hemline.  I'm a relatively tall girl, so some dresses tend to look shorter on me anyway, and it's annoying to have to be constantly pulling down your dress and making sure you're not giving everyone a show!  New York City can be like a wind tunnel sometimes, so I definitely didn't want to worry about that.  These cute-as-can-be dresses are a little more modest, but they don't sacrifice on style.  They're also good for the New York heat and could be worn for pretty much any activity I might do while I'm here, including picnicking in the park, seeing a show, or meeting friends for dinner!
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You know me - I love a dress with a full skirt, and of course, I love crinolines.  However, petticoats are not exactly conducive to traveling.  This pettislip is a great solution.  It provides just a touch of fullness (and it's so soft!), and it barely takes up any room at all in my luggage!
If you're staying at a hotel, you can use an iron to fix wrinkly clothes, but even when an iron is available, I sometimes like to bring my portable steamer instead!  It's so fast, works with regular tap water and is a great size to pack.  I also make sure to bring a robe, both for showering and lounging purposes.  This fuzzy pink one is so fun!
Since it's still summery, cute (and inexpensive) sunglasses are necessary!  I don't trust myself to carry around pricy frames, since they always end up at the bottom of my cluttered purse.  I need something cheap and durable.  I love all three of these sweet and retro pairs (though I'd definitely need a case for the last pair):


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In most cases, traveling = lots of walking!  I anticipated that much better for this trip than for our Disney World vacation (I was in agony almost the entire time!).  I decided to get this pair of white eyelet flats by Aerosoles.  The brand came highly recommended by my friend Kristina, and then when I saw this white pair at DSW, I knew I had to check them out.  I was glad I ended up trying them on in the store, because it seems that, while I wear a size 9 in heels, I end up needing an 8.5 in flats.  They seem very comfortable so far (and I think they'll stretch a little bit, which is good), and it's so nice to actually have arch support!  I tend to buy really cheap flats that I wear constantly, but I needed something of better quality for all the walking I'll be doing.  They were even on sale in the store!
I do tend to wear a lot of makeup.  For one thing, I have skin problems, which are obviously not made better by wearing a lot of makeup, but sometimes it's unavoidable if I want to look halfway decent.  But in addition, I just really *like* makeup, and it's fun to play around with.  My two favorite products as of late are below.  One is brand new to me -- the Anastasia Beverly Hills brow powder duo.  I fill in my eyebrows on a regular basis because, although they have a nice natural shape to them, they are very sparse in some areas and I feel so much more confident when they are filled in.  For a long time, I'd just been trying to find a good color match in eyeshadows, which was somewhat limiting and could lead to a harsh look.  I did some research and found this line of brow products at Sephora, and I am in LOVE.  I needed something travel-sized, and this eyebrow powder duo palette is perfect for that -- not to mention that it's much more natural-looking than what I had been using prior.  The other product is Revlon Colorburst lip balm stain, which I adore because I don't like wearing conventional lipstick, but I do need some color on my lips.  I have kind of a small mouth, and a little lip stain makes a big difference on me.  This balm stays on for a long time and feels much lighter than regular lipstick (and it's also easier to fix if you mess up)!

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And finally: this might not apply if you are staying in a hotel, but if you're staying with friends (like I am) or family, I think it's a very nice gesture to bring a gift as a thank you to your host.  Gift cards for restaurants are always nice, or something for their home.  I opted to get my friend Caitlin a really beautiful candle from Crabtree & Evelyn, but this one is lovely, too.  It's the thought that counts, and a sweet little gift really makes you feel appreciated.

I had a lot of fun putting together this little guide, so I hope you didn't miss my regular Friday Favorites too much!  
Enjoy your weekend!

xox Sammi

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Sugar rush

ModCloth cupcake dress
Cupcake ring
Cupcake dress

I'd sort of forgotten about this dress!  I didn't like how it looked on me for a long time.  The proportions seemed "off" somehow, and though I've worn it a couple of times before on the blog (here and here), I always had to style it with another layer.  But now I really like this particular styling.  Funny how time can change your perspective (and how true that is for so many different things).

In other news, I'm leaving for NYC today!  I really need to just get out of this town for a little while, and even though it's only for a long weekend, I'll take anything I can get!  I've actually been really gun-shy about going back to NY under any circumstances; not only do I have some bad memories from when I lived there, but because my ex-boyfriend still lives in the area (not to mention his new girlfriend...), there's kind of a negative connotation with that, too.  But I realized that I can't allow those things control how I choose to live my life.  I can't let the bad stuff from my past continue to have such a huge effect on what I decide to do in my future.  So I am determined to enjoy myself (I'm meeting up with a few blogger friends, as well as some friends from college that I haven't seen in a long time), and I'm determined to think very seriously about the possibility of moving back to the area.  It's obviously where I need to be, it's where I have connections, friends and unfinished business.  It's going to take me a while to feel financially-secure enough to make actual plans, but as long as I'm moving towards a goal, I think that's what's important.

Dessert dress
Cupcake print
Cupcake dress
Outfit Details
My Sweet Art Dress: ModCloth (no longer available)
BAIT Spectators: ModCloth (on sale!)
Cupcake ring: Claytime Designs UK
Sunglasses: ModCloth (free w/purchase)
White belt: eBay

Have a nice Thursday!
xox Sammi

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

On the radio

ModCloth romper
Novelty print romper
ModCloth romper

I think this is the first time this year that I've worn a romper on my blog!  One of the fun things about this romper is that it looks like it's a very light pink from far away, but it's actually white with little red polka dots, and it has just about the cutest print ever on top of it -- it's of radios, alarm clocks and telephones!  It sort of felt like something I'd wear to a pool party, so I decided that I'd try taking some of my photos by our pool, for a tiny change of scenery.  I know my backyard probably gets boring to look at, but I really hate taking photos in public!  People always stare at you and ask what you're doing, and having to take photos when you're self-conscious is never pleasant.  However, once I get my license (soon!), I'll at least be able to find some different and secluded locations.  Until then, our yard (and today, our pool) will have to do.

I'm not exactly sure why I've never worn this romper on here before.  I think part of it is that a lot of rompers (this one included) can be a little tricky to photograph, in terms of having them look flattering in a many of the shots.  I weighed significantly more back when I bought this romper, and then I ended up losing weight before I could wear it, so it had been noticeably too big on me for a while.  It's still a little baggy in some areas, but since I've gained back a little weight (the eternal struggle...), this piece looks better on me.  You win some, you lose some.

ModCloth romper
Retro romper
Romper
ModCloth romper

Speaking of winning some/losing some... I don't talk a whooole lot about my theatrical life on here -- partially because I like keeping it separate from my blog, but also because I'm a little superstitious, which is why I don't usually mention much about auditions before they happen.  I had an audition for a project last night that I was really excited about the prospect of being involved in, and I got my hopes up.  Normally, not being cast wouldn't bother me so much, but because I put so much into it and because of some other circumstances, this one really got to me.  I try to take away something from every audition, even when the outcome wasn't what I was hoping for, but sometimes putting that into practice proves difficult.  I guess one thing is that there are certain aspects of an audition you simply don't have control over, and one of those things is the director's vision.  Even if you think the director's interpretation of a character (or even of the writing) is totally off-base... there's nothing you can really do about it, other than to do the best work you can.  And the other thing I got out of this, frankly, is that I really do need to get out of Rochester as soon as I am financially able.  It's becoming very frustrating to try and do theatre here, and at this point, there's not much more I can do for my career here.  I feel stuck a lot of the time, because I don't know what my next move is going to be.  But I'm trying to plug away and not lose sight of what I want to do.

On the other hand, the winning part of being here for the time being is that I'm going to be working for a princess party company (mostly on weekends), which will be fun because obviously, I have always wanted to be an actual princess and now I can be.  Sometimes the opportunities that come your way aren't the ones you initially anticipated.  And maybe it's better that way.  I'm just trying to embrace them as they come.   

Retro romper
ModCloth romper
Retro print
Romper
Outfit Details
Romper: ModCloth (old)
Name necklace: c/o oNecklace
White flats: YesStyle
Belt: eBay

Have a great Tuesday!
xox Sammi

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Blossom Dearie

Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Pink flowers
Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Hair flower
Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress

Isn't this dress pretty??  I snagged this Bernie Dexter dress along with this one during one of Bernie's last chance sales.  This cherry blossom print is decidedly springy (I wish I'd had it back when they were in bloom!), but I knew it'd be pretty for summertime, too.  The skirt of this dress is a little less full than others I have, so I opted not to wear a crinoline with it, but I think it'd look nice with one, too.  I have a little cropped pink cardigan that would go perfectly with this dress, so I think I'll try my hand at styling it when the weather gets a little cooler, too.  Who says you can't wear florals in the fall?

Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Pink flower
Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Cherry blossom print
Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress

My mom and I are heading to the Sterling Renaissance Festival today!  It's one of my favorite summer traditions.  We usually eat our way through the faire (is there any other way?).  I hardly ever drink, but they have these concord wine slushes that are absolutely amazing (they taste just like grape juice, which is the only reason I like them).  The turkey legs are always way too much for me to handle, though!  We always love watching all of the acts -- though our favorite one is curiously absent from our faire this year, sadly.  I have a couple of friends who have worked at various Ren Faires, and while I think it would be a really fun gig, I have such trouble with improv that it's probably not in the cards for me (unless I learn how to get out of my head and not freeze up).  I have such an appreciation for actors who can think on their feet like that.

Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Bernie Dexter cherry blossom dress
Outfit Details
Dress: Bernie Dexter (similar)
Jelly flats: J.Crew (similar)
Hair flower: Forever 21

I'm gearing up for a very busy and exciting week ahead.  I have an audition tomorrow (and it's my best friend Wayne's birthday), a photo shoot on Tuesday (for a new job!), and I'm heading down to NYC on Thursday for a long weekend of fun and friends!  I'll get into all of that in my next post.  For now, I'm off to the Faire!  Have a wonderful rest of your weekend!

xox Sammi

Friday, August 15, 2014

Friday Favorites #59

Happy Friday, everyone.  This week has been hard for a lot of people, I think, so here are some things that have made me smile over the past few days:

I love these sweet lucky cat pieces from Kate Spade!  They remind me so much of my kitty.

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I've been admiring this sweet kawaii dress for a while now:

UNICORN SHOES (they literally have a horn on the toe)!

This Betsey Johnson backpack is so deliciously Barbie-esque:
I absolutely adore this swimsuit from Sugardoll Swim.  It seems like the bottoms shown are no longer available (which is a shame), but you can find the top here and a different pair of bottoms here.


This cherry print dress from Trashy Diva is so lovely.  It comes in several different styles, but I was especially taken with the high neck of this one:
This tomato ring is so cute!
Speaking of tomatoes (and fruit in general)... I don't know why, but this Buzzfeed piece made me laugh SO hard.  It's probably the captions.


I might need these cotton candy socks:

I really love this straw fascinator headband!
These might be the most darling cookies I've ever seen.  I only wish they were somehow root beer-flavored (but I'm pretty sure they aren't)!


Most adorable makeup bag ever?  I think yes.
This animal embroidery is absolutely breathtaking.  See more here!

This little cassette tape purse is right up my alley:
I loved this piece, and if you're a child of the '90s, you will too.
Finally, if you haven't seen this video of Robin Williams meeting Koko the Gorilla... do yourself a favor and watch it immediately.  What a wonderful man he was.


Have a great weekend.
xox Sammi