Red Dolly Swimwear

We're in the full swing of summer, so I finally got the chance to try out these two swimsuits from Red Dolly Swimwear! The sweet folks at Red Dolly were kind enough to send me the Bella (a high-waisted two-piece black suit with white polka dots) and their Mint & Fruit print one-piece suit (which has the cutest little citrus segment print). Both suits feature lovely prints, a halter tie top and a gathered center bust (which is lined with an elastic band underneath).

Neither suit provided much support, but the citrus print one-piece came with padded bust cups, which I really appreciated; unfortunately, the two-piece didn't come with them, but you can add them to any suit for a small fee – and I'd definitely recommend that you have them added if you're well-endowed like I am. I chose to wear an XL in both suits, as I hate when swimsuits are too tight and expose too much, but I think I might've been better off in the size large, as they felt a bit roomy. However, these suits served me well for my beach day (well, faux-beach day, since I was on Lake Ontario, not the ocean) and a relaxing afternoon by the pool. Red Dolly has a ton of darling designs to choose from (and they make matching suits for both babies and little girls!). I'm actually dying to try out one of their cute swim skirts, and they have a couple of pastel suits I love! If you're eyeing one of these cute suits, you're in luck: you can take 20% off their order at Red Dolly Swimwear when you enter the code SAMMI at checkout!

So here's the thing: swimsuits can be very scary little creatures if you allow them to be (and admittedly, I often do). As a woman in our society, we're constantly bombarded with manipulated images of seemingly perfect models in skimpy swimwear, and it's difficult (at least for me) to not get down on yourself for not looking a certain way when you bare almost-all in a bathing suit. It's stupid. It's unnecessary. It's harmful. I believe 100% in body positivity and loving myself at any size... in theory. In practice, it's not always so easy. I've struggled with my weight and body image for most of my life, and it can be a real challenge to not critique things about my figure – especially when swimsuits are enter the picture. I don't like to equate what I weigh with how beautiful I feel, but if I'm being honest, the two do tend to have some sort of correlation – not because I don't believe that I'm attractive when I'm heavier, but because I personally don't feel healthy and happy at a larger size, and I'm sure that shows through.

I've made a lot of positive changes in the last few weeks, including losing 10+ pounds on Weight Watchers thus far – though please be assured that I'm more concerned with feeling like the best version of myself than the number on the scale. I'm on a bit of a journey. Part of that journey is embracing and celebrating how I look in the here and now, which can prove to be difficult when you're so focused on a particular result. Sometimes you just want to skip to the end, to the "after" photo. But that ideology sucks and I want to be cognizant of loving myself unconditionally. That being said... I wasn't thrilled with how I looked in some of the photos from these sets. Instead of appreciating the cute suits from Red Dolly, I would end up fixating on my body's supposed imperfections. Of course, as a blogger, I have the task of editing dozens of photos of myself, and that gives me the unique opportunity to pick apart every little roll and bit of cellulite I see. That's hard, and it's even harder to break that habit. The idea of exposing parts of yourself often kept private to potentially the whole of the internet is... daunting (especially when you don't have much control over where they might end up or how people might judge you). But you know what? I felt really cute in these pieces. They're really fun. I like how I look in the photos I chose to show here (even with my hair up, which I normally hate!). I don't look perfect or like a model, but that's anything I've ever really wanted. I just look like myself – "flaws" and all – and that's a pretty beautiful thing.

Outfit Details

Bella and Mint & Fruit swimsuits: c/o Red Dolly Swimwear

Sunglasses: similar  ||  Watermelon beach towel: c/o Unique Vintage

Red bandana: similar  ||  Orange swim sarong: Amazon

Jester

The harlequin prints from Pinup Girl Clothing continue to grow on me. I got this purple and green colorway on a Facebook swap and sell group (the dress version supposed to be coming back later this year), and while I'm glad I own it, it's very clear to me that it was put in the washing machine (and maybe even dried). I got it for a good price, but even so, it's annoying when people don't disclose the state of their garments when selling them. And as a general PSA: don't throw expensive items like these in the wash! I always dry clean my PUG dresses, and even for the stuff I do wash myself (like the peasant and vamp tops), I always wash on cold and always line-dry. You can't really tell from these photos, but this skirt has pilling and has faded a bit, and I also bought another vamp top that definitely went through the dryer. I know dry cleaning is expensive, but I'd much rather pay a little more to keep an expensive piece in great condition than even risk the chance of ruining it completely. Just a little laundering tip to start off your Monday morning. :)

Outfit Details

Lavender Vamp Top: Pinup Girl Clothing

Harlequin Skirt: swap group (similar)

Name necklace: c/o Onecklace

Petticoat: Pinup Girl Clothing

Shoes: B.A.I.T. Footwear

I moved most of my stuff into my new apartment this weekend, but it's a bit of a process. I won't have electricity until Tuesday (and probably won't have internet 'til next week), so it gives me a bit of time to space things out, which makes it a bit less stressful. It's gonna be beautiful when it's all done, and I can't wait to show you guys! My first week of work went pretty well, and I'm hoping this week will have me feeling less overwhelmed with all there is to learn. I'm also hoping my backlog of blog photos will last for a little while until I get settled!

Have a great Monday!

Friday Favorites #136

Happy Friday! This week has been super busy – not only was it my first week at my first job, but I'm moving into my new apartment tomorrow – so I'm actually surprised I was able to find time to put together this post. Of course, I still have a ton of packing to do (oops)! I'm starting off this week's Friday Favorites post with some adorable skirts from Unique Vintage!

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I sort of want this encouraging plaque for my desk...

I need this Pusheen planner and mug!

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I love the print on this Cath Kidston dress (and there's one very similar to it in my shop!):

This portable speaker is so cute.

Ahhh these Melissa x Jeremy Scott flats are the best!

This may or may not be a kids' nightstand, but do I care? Absolutely not.

I couldn't help but order this dish drying rack... it'll go perfectly in my minty kitchen!

Ummmm... I also had to order this new dress from Trashy Diva. Because I mean, come on.

Midcentury tea towels and coasters!

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These tea-themed knobs are wonderful!

And finally... these shoes have macaron heels!

Have a great weekend!

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Sunhats & Sunflowers

Sunflowers are one of my favorite blooms to have around. They're just so cheerful! This is my second sunflower printed dress (it actually has two of my favorite flowers – sunflowers and daisies), and I couldn't wait until late summer to wear it here on the blog. It's actually an older Hell Bunny dress, but I'd been wanting it for quite some time and hadn't had much luck finding it until now. It's the perfect match for this sunflower Erstwilder brooch, and my mom was sweet enough to get me a little sunflower bouquet to make me smile.

Outfit Details

Hell Bunny sunflower dress: swap group (similar here + here)

Sumptuous Sunflower brooch: c/o Erstwilder

Boater hat: Pinup Girl Clothing

Petticoat: Pinup Girl Clothing

Flats: similar

Today is the first day of my new job, and I'm pretty anxious about it, but optimistic. I've said it before, but it's really scary to venture into brand new territory. This week is going to be crazy-busy; I'm moving into my new apartment this weekend, so between getting adjusted to working full-time and packing and everything else, I'm probably going to be stressed out and perhaps not able to blog as much as I'd like – but I have to believe it'll all work out and will be great in the end. Thank you to all of you who have offered words of encouragement and advice – it's been wonderful to have your support.

Friday Favorites #135

TGIF! This week has been pretty stressful, as I'm getting ready to start a new job in a few days and am packing up all my stuff to move into my new apartment. But I'm super excited about getting to decorate my own place... which inspired a big part of this week's Friday Favorites post! I'm starting off with a bunch of pretty things I'd love to have in my new home:

a.  standing mixer

b.  wall clock

c.  retro compact fridge

d.  book cover shower curtain(!!!)

e.  meadow tapestry

f.  jazz serving tray/catch-all dish

g.  midcentury sofa

h.  carousel pillow

i.  floor lamp

j.  peony print

k.  end table

l.  striped rug

m.  kate spade dishes

n.  peach pillow

o.  pink chair

p.  dressing table

I'm obsessed with these film-themed posters! They'd make for great wall art. You can find them all (plus a bunch more) here!

The Royal Tenenbaums poster

Amelie poster

Breakfast at Tiffany's poster

I'm basically getting a separate dressing room/closet room in my new place (squeal!), which means I can *totally* justify buying more clothes to put in it... right? No? Well, I'll just lust over these pieces from afar then... starting with this adorable Bernie Dexter dress!

I literally just packed up all of my purses yesterday. They may or not fill two HUGE cardboard boxes. This is how you know you have a problem. And yet, it doesn't keep me from wanting these:

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How pretty is this dress!

I love these cute skirts too:

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As excited as I am for getting my apartment all set up, I've been incredibly anxious for the past couple of weeks. I think I might need these coloring books to help me unwind!

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And finally... I've been trying to justify getting the new Dita cardigan for weeks, and I may just have to reward myself for my adulting by making a totally frivolous, ridiculous (but beautiful) purchase.

That's all for this week! Have an awesome weekend!

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